Spring Clean Your Cleaning Habits and Nourish Your Soul

Denise Frakes, Home and Life Coach • March 2, 2020

There is an indescribable joy that happens when you open a freshly cleaned refrigerator or wake up to clean kitchen because it was put to bed the night before. What is the feeling you have when your home is tidy and welcoming? Your heart smiles. Your body relaxes. You welcome guests with confidence. These tiny pockets of home nourishment drop our stress and up our joy.

Have you ever wondered why home care seems to be easy for some and a struggle for others? Habit. It’s estimated that 40% of our daily actions are habitual. Good home habits can make our lives easy, effortless and successful. Poor habits create a life of clutter, stress and struggle. Did you know most of our habits are set in place before we are 9 years old? Our home care habits go on automatic pilot, unless we intentionally shift them.

I have clients who fall on both ends of the home habits spectrum: easy or struggling. I asked one what she does to make her home care seem effortless. She shrugged, waved her hand in the air, as if waving it away because it was nothing, “Oh, I don’t really do anything special. I just pick up a little here and there. I do a little bit every day. I don’t spend much time thinking about it really. I just keep things simple.” Bingo! She had created or been gifted with unconscious acts of happy cleaning habits.

Then there are my clients who are chronically stressed by their homes. Home care becomes a drain on their souls. What separates one person from the other is not character, brilliance, laziness or heart. It’s habit.

Here’s the good news: Habits can be shifted. No matter your current age or lifestyle, you can make your life and home happier, easier and healthier by upshifting your home habits. This applies to all habits and not just our cleaning ones.

The most successful way to shift habits is by creating a support system around your habit shifts. I didn’t even realize the value of support, until I came across a pod cast from Marie Foleo. She shared a study by the American Society of Training and Development:

“You have a 65% chance of completing a goal if you commit to someone.” and “If you have a specific accountability appointment with another person, it can increase your chance of success by up to 95%.”

Wow!

Delightful, soul-nourishing habits to support your spring cleaning:
Hiring a home angel/housecleaner. By having consistent help in rebooting our homes, we feel supported and our homes get consistently rebooted. We can create new habits by getting our home ready for our cleaning angels to appear. Hiring help is an act of self-kindness. Work with a home coach. We don’t see what’s ingrained, familiar and habitual. Home coaches bring clear insight and kind support. I totally recommend hiring a coach if you want to shift your life habits and/or work on bigger projects such as uncluttering, de-stressing and creating a healthy home and a life you love.

Some daily habits worth cultivating: Daily chores are actions you do every day to support a nourished, smooth and well-functioning life. Put your kitchen to bed each night and wake it up in the morning, just like you would a loved one in your care. Look around and spend 10 minutes in the morning and at night tidying up and untangling the day. Think of these chores as moving meditations.

Celebrate: Cleaning and home care tend to be invisible work. Make it visible by honoring your work and giving yourself much-deserved gifts of TLC. Life chores such as cleaning can deplete our spirits if we don’t take care to nourish ourselves along the way. Add in little treats, rewards and celebrations of your work.

Think of it as the Spring cleaning of habits! Use the energy of Spring cleaning to start creating new habits of home nourishment. Be consistent. Before you know it, these beautiful new habits will become effortless acts of love.

Denise Frakes is a home and life coach. She specializes in helping her client’s create space for the life and home they dream of: uncluttered, unbusy, unstressed, nourished, healthy and loved. Learn more at www.denisefrakes.com.

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