Conquering Stress with Self-Care

Becca Duskin, Live to Thrive - Holistic Health and Lifestyle Coaching • January 1, 2021

Stress is responsible for 90% of illness and disease (physical and mental). Our bodies are under a constant level of chronic stress never seen before. We live this way without realizing the effect it has on our health. It can affect our immune system, our digestive system, our skin, our mood, our brain health, our energy, and our ability to experience joy in our daily life.

We run everywhere. From the moment we roll out of bed in the morning to the second that we collapse into bed at night. We wake up to an alarm clock buzzing, hit snooze multiple times, get out of bed behind schedule and rushed, grab coffee and easy breakfast options as we head out the door for our day or get kids ready for their day, come home, rush to get dinner on the table, unwind at night in front of electronics, and then collapse into bed late. We don’t tend to take the time to care for ourselves amidst the chaos. When during the day, do we take care of ourselves? When, do we stop and breathe? When do we stop to notice what is beautiful in our lives?

Taking a few moments during the day to focus on relaxing and centering yourself can mean the difference between health and illness. When we are constantly pouring from our cups for all those who need us in our life, our cup becomes empty and we have nothing more to give without making ourselves sick, which takes us out of the game for everyone. Self-care helps you be a better person for all the people and things in your life that need your attention and love, including yourself. You become a better mom, dad, wife, husband, friend, employee and person. When you take the time to fill yourself up with goodness, you have more to give without depleting your reserves.

It does not take a week away at a spa or even a whole day (don’t get me wrong those are good things too!) to put yourself in a relaxed state. It takes a few small moments of intention a few times a day to reap rewards beyond belief in your life. The effects are cumulative. The more you do it, the easier it is to get into a relaxed state and out of stress mode. By learning simple selfcare strategies, you will have the tools to calm your mind and body at any given time in a world of chaos and stress.

Self-care can change everything. When you get up before the chaos in the morning and spend quiet time alone first, you begin your day relaxed. This changes everything. When you take time during the day to stop and breathe in the beauty of your life and breathe out the tension, you spend your day relaxed. This changes everything. When you end your day slowly and wind down in a way that serves you, you end your day relaxed. This changes everything. Self-care lights up your soul every day, so that you can light up the world in all the ways that you dream of and some you never imagined.

Becca is a registered nurse and certified health coach. As a proud mother of teenage daughters, she is passionate about changing the face of healthcare in the world! She works with women who suffer from digestive issues to make lasting changes towards healthy, energetic and joy-filled lives with less pain and discomfort. Reach out to her at livetothrive.com.

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