Six Signs It’s Time to Step Up Your Stress-Response Game this Spring
Have you ever heard of fight, flight or freeze? If so, you already know your body has a highly intelligent system built in for responding to threats, both real and perceived.
Unfortunately, your body doesn’t know the difference between a life threatening situation and that unexpected early-morning text from your boss. Amid our current climate of mounting health concerns, social unrest, constant pinging devices, and the overall unrelenting pressures and pace of daily life, you may find yourself in a state of fight, flight or freeze much more frequently than nature intended. Our bodies can’t function properly in a constant state of heightened alert; these systems are meant to kick in for just the occasional threat. The resulting effects of continual stress can wreak havoc on your physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing.
Not sure if chronic stress is a factor for you? Here are six signs it may be time to step up your stress-response game and get some professional support as well as implement self-care practices in service of your wellbeing:
1. You can’t sleep or eat—or you feel like sleeping and eating all the time. Daytime fatigue, nighttime insomnia, and changes in appetite can go hand-in-hand with heightened cortisol and adrenaline levels.
2. Digestive issues pop up. Stomach pains, nausea or indigestion could signal that stress levels are spiking.
3. You experience other physical or emotional signs of stress that seem to defy explanation. It’s possible that your unexplained muscle soreness or frequent headaches could be stress-related.
4. You find yourself turning to numbing substances and activities. If substances, screens or sugary snacks are your go-tos, you may be subconsciously seeking a break from the ongoing cycle of fight/ flight/freeze.
5. You don’t think you have time for healthy outlets that helped in the past. Perhaps you’ve turned to practices like yoga, mindfulness or massage in the past, but now you brush these things aside because you’re just too busy. The mind can play wicked tricks on us when in the throes of a stress response—one of which being the conviction that we don’t have the time, energy, or other resources to get the support we need. There is a famous Zen proverb that says “you should sit in meditation for 20 minutes every day—unless you’re too busy; then you should sit for an hour.” The upshot? We make time for what’s important to us, so decide what’s most important to you, and if health or wellbeing is high on the list, commit to yourself by prioritizing your resources accordingly.
6. Your support network (doc, therapist, partner, friends, family) expresses concern. The body's stress response can short-circuit the thinking brain. Luckily, the people who know you best can often spot details you might miss when you’re caught in a swirl of stress hormones that emphasize survival over calm and steady observation. Trust and lean on your people as needed.
If any of this resonates, I invite you to join me Tuesday evening, April 27 for a free online offering, Self-Soothing for Stressful Times, during which I’ll share effective breathing and mindfulness techniques to help you soothe your frazzled nerves, calm your mind, and enhance your wellbeing. After all, your mind and body are equipped with powerful tools not just for reacting to stress but for intentionally dissolving it, too—provided you know how to use them.
Jennifer Weston is a local massage therapist and yoga instructor whose practice focuses on helping people dissolve stress and tension and feel better in their bodies. Jennifer offers Therapeutic Relaxation Massage, Yoga, Myofascial Roll+Release, and Thai Yoga Massage services in her secluded studio, conveniently located near Northeast Tacoma, Federal Way and Brown’s Point. To learn more or schedule a complimentary 15-minute Zoom Intro, visit sunbreakmassage.com.
*This article is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.






